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Join Kat & Leo for a Swinger podcast by Newbies, for Newbies. Kat’s the brains of the podcast and the star of Leo’s naughty fantasies. Funny, yet wildly unpredictable, Leo is the yuck to Kat’s yum. With a rakish mind and naughty wit, you never know what to expect with an R-rated mind made for mature audiences. We’re just getting started, so stay tuned to find out what crazy swinger adventure we’ll get up to next.
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Ever rolled your eyes at yet another Glow party? Or wondered why lifestyle events seem to start at vampire hours? (we love 'em!) From overpriced club nights to the dreaded "bi-for-my-guy" dilemma, we’re diving deep into the biggest swinger complaints - and trust us, there are dozens.
In this episode, we spill the tea on the pet peeves that make seasoned swingers sigh, laugh, or straight-up ghost. We’re talking about theme-night fatigue, awkward price gaps, pushy party-goers, and the unwritten rules that some people just don’t get.
Plus, we’re not just ranting - we’re serving up solutions so you can sidestep these common mistakes and keep your lifestyle game strong. Whether you’re a newbie or a seasoned pro, this episode will have you nodding and taking notes.
Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
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Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Swinger Pet Peeves (And How to Avoid Them)
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
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Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)
🔥 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
🔥 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
🔥 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
Wednesday Mar 19, 2025
Wednesday Mar 19, 2025
Grab your stilettos and step into Amsterdam’s Red Light District with us! This is our pre-pre-pre lifestyle ORIGIN story—before we even knew what “the lifestyle” meant, we were already amping up our sexy fun in the neon-lit streets of Amsterdam. We’re spilling all the scandalous details. Steamy live sex shows at Casa Rosso, how we played behind the red light windows (yes, really!), and the secrets to sealing the deal with an RLD lady—scam-free. Also where to find the most discreet FFM experience without the tourist traps. Plus, we uncover the Erotic Museum’s wildest exhibits, the thrill of legal after-dark public play, and the city’s best naughty hotels. Whether you're a curious newbie or a seasoned sinner, this episode is your ultimate guide to Amsterdam’s hottest pleasures. 😈💋 Listen now—if you dare!
Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
*BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Amsterdam After Dark: Red Light District Sexy Secrets Revealed
CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
*NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
*NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)
Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
Wednesday Mar 12, 2025
Wednesday Mar 12, 2025
While we never do a Kiss ‘n Tell… let’s be real, it’s high time to spill the tea on what Kat & Leo have been up to. From riding the double helix of alternating threesomes MFM-MFF-MFM-MFF (because balance is key, right?) to speedrunning the Swingermoon, that wild, intoxicating first 2 years of swinging where every encounter plays out like a passion-fueled dream you never want to wake up from. Plus, Leo’s ultimate bucket list item he didn’t even know he had (MFFFF, anyone?), our Bucket F*ck-It List of must-do experiences before the glow fades, and why we’re grabbing every last adventure before the clock runs out. Buckle up, because it's a ride fueled by mind-numbingly powerful NRE coursing through our veins.
Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
*BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Kiss 'n' Tell Our Swingermoon - The Honeymoon of Swinging
CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
*NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
*NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)
Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
Wednesday Mar 05, 2025
Wednesday Mar 05, 2025
We’re diving into all the things we wish we knew before swinging - aka the mistakes, surprises, and total WTF moments that come with the lifestyle. From swinger FOMO to NRE hitting at different times, we break down how to keep your head on straight when emotions run wild. Plus, Kat has thoughts on why a threesome should never turn into a foursome… foreshadow much?
We’re also talking peer pressure, rejection, and why too much talking means no action (seriously, just go to an event!). Plus, the importance of aftercare - even for play partners (puppy pile, anyone?). Oh, and mistakes? They will happen - just don’t hold a grudge. It’s raw, real, and packed with the kind of swinging confessions we wish someone had told us before we dove in. Buckle up, because this one’s a ride!
Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
*BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Swinging Rookie Mistakes: Wish I Knew Then What I Know Now
CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
*NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
*NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)
Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
Tuesday Feb 25, 2025
Tuesday Feb 25, 2025
We’re diving deep into our local swinger scene with a full review of Twist SF, San Francisco's only swinger club. From newbie yoga to couples only nights, it's the spot for newbies! Plus we take a super quick sneak peek into Power Exchange, San Francisco’s sleaziest, anything-goes sex club (definitely not for the faint of heart!), where oddly enough, we had one of our best experiences—go figure! Why do we always find the hottest play partners at the sketchiest clubs?!
Plus, we’re serving up tons of newbie advice for your first time at a club, because Twist is one of the most beginner-friendly spots out there. Kat also spills the tea on the kind of guys she’s really looking for—cowboy? Farmer? Biker? And how to toe the fine line between being pushy vs. being a wussy... Plus, we unpack the shocking truth about her surprisingly low body count as a swinger (how is that even possible?!). Buckle up for all the juicy confessions—raw, unfiltered, and live on the road!
Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
*BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Twist SF Review: San Francisco's Swinger Club
CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
*NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
*NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)
Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
Wednesday Feb 19, 2025
Wednesday Feb 19, 2025
New year, new us? Nah - new year, same freaky us... but turned ALL the way up! What better way to ring in the new year than with a sizzling double helix of threesomes? That’s right—MFF, MFM, MFF, MFM—back and forth, back and forth—like a perfectly balanced sexual seesaw. In this episode, we spill all the steamy details on how we kicked off our year with an alternating lineup of mind-blowing trios. We’re talking the thrill of inviting a single person into your coupledom—the spark, the heat, the pure fire it ignites in your relationship.
Whether it’s her, him, her—or him, her, him—each dynamic brings its own flavor, tension, and delicious chaos. We break down why threesomes truly are the GOAT and how bringing in another woman for soft, sensual bliss or a hot guy to ramp up the intensity, can unlock new levels of connection, passion, and straight-up fun with your partner.
Curious about how ménage life fuels the fire? Wondering if threesomes could be your GOAT move this year? Buckle up. This episode is your playbook for pleasure. Press play—because three really is the MAGIC number.
Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
*BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Why We Love Threesomes: Ménage à Trois, Yee-Haw!
CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
*NEW* Spotify Playlist - Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
*NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)
Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
Thursday Feb 13, 2025
Thursday Feb 13, 2025
Oh la la, baby! This is THE ONE—the club that started it all, the aha moment, the night we dipped our toes (and maybe more) into the world of swinging! In this episode, we take you straight to Le Mask in Paris, where the energy was electric, the mystery was intoxicating, and French consent had us absolutely weak in the knees (touch first, ask later? Oui, oui!🔥).
But we don’t stop there—because Paris isn’t just about the playrooms. We spill ALL the sexy details on our steamy escapades at Chochotte burlesque theater, a place where tease is an art form, and the Love Hotel (yes, rent-by-the-hour themed hotel rooms... because Paris just gets it).
This is our origin story—the night we realized vanilla was officially off the menu. So grab a glass of French wine, settle in, and relive our first club experience with us. Vive la liberté, lovers!
Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
*BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Le Mask Paris Review – Our Naughty Paris Origin Story
CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
*NEW* Spotify Playlist - Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
*NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)
Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
Thursday Feb 06, 2025
Thursday Feb 06, 2025
Ever caught yourself giggling at a foursome joke on the golf course? Does your closet have more theme outfits than regular clothes? If so… you just might be a swinger! Join Kat & Leo for a hilarious, no-holds-barred deep dive into the funniest, most outrageous signs you’re in the lifestyle—Jeff Foxworthy style! From wristband collections to tequila shots taken off very questionable places, this episode will have you laughing, nodding, and maybe blushing. Ready to find out just how deep you’ve gone? Tune in!
Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
*BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! You Might Be a Swinger If... Top Signs You Swing
CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
*NEW* Spotify Playlist - Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
*NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)
Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
Facebook: @VanillaSwingers