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Join Kat & Leo for a Swinger podcast by Newbies, for Newbies. Kat’s the brains of the podcast and the star of Leo’s naughty fantasies. Funny, yet wildly unpredictable, Leo is the yuck to Kat’s yum. With a rakish mind and naughty wit, you never know what to expect with an R-rated mind made for mature audiences. We’re just getting started, so stay tuned to find out what crazy swinger adventure we’ll get up to next.
Episodes
6 days ago
6 days ago
📱 Ready to swipe, match, and maybe even moan? In this episode, we’re diving headfirst into the wild world of swinger apps - because navigating SLS, SDC, Feeld, Kasidie, and 3Fun is not for the faint of thong. We’ll give you our own personal flirty little overview of each app (don’t worry, deep dives are coming) and spill our top tips for building a swinger profile that actually makes people want to say yes. From bio basics to pic do’s and don’ts, we’re sharing all the app tea - cringe, catfish, and connection included.
We went deep (like, really deep) so you don’t have to. These are our takes, our red flags, and our fave tricks that actually work in the wild. Trust us - your future play encounters will thank you.
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
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Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Swipe Right! Swinger App Do’s, Don’ts & Dealbreakers
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
🔥 Check Out Our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail.
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Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘
💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Wednesday May 28, 2025
Wednesday May 28, 2025
🥊 It's the lifestyle debate that never dies - and we're diving in headfirst. In this episode, Kat & Leo break down what really goes on in the minds of single players vs. committed couples navigating the scene. From the thrill of a threesome to the emotional gymnastics of couple swaps, we’re talking strategy, vibe checks, jealousy triggers, and the very real difference between showing up solo vs. as a team. 🦄 v 👩🏻❤️👨🏻
PLUS—find out what happens when we try to have a wholesome East Coast family vacay… and our swinger guardian angel pulls the rug out from under us on 2 out of 3 meet-n-greets. Good thing our backup plan was one wild night with a wilder unicorn.... tune in for some laughs!
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Couples vs Singles: Threesomes, Foursomes & Facepalms
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
🔥 Check Out Our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘
💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Tuesday May 20, 2025
Tuesday May 20, 2025
🏴☠ Yo Ho Ho and a bottle of rum! What do sunscreen bottles, secret bladder flasks, and a suspiciously full shampoo container have in common? Welcome to Part 2 of our Bliss Cruise recap - where we unpack the art of sneaky smuggling, the essentials you actually need to pack, and all the steamy HOT TAKES that’ll turn your cruise from basic to blissed-out.
From embarkation hacks to dining to dancing to how to find the elusive sexy fun you're looking for, we cover the highs, the hangovers, and the moments we almost got caught (but didn’t). Pop that bottle of bubbly - it’s time to sail the naughty seas.
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BLISS CRUISE OBSESSED?
CHECK OUT ALL OUR BLISS SWINGER CRUISE REVIEWS HERE!
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Bliss Review Part 2: Smuggled Booze, Bent the Rules, Tips You Can Use - Part 2
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
🔥 Check Out Our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘
💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Tuesday May 13, 2025
Tuesday May 13, 2025
⚓ New owners, new app, and a whole lot of new ways to end up in someone else’s bed. Isn't that what it's all about?! In Part 1 of our Bliss Cruise 2025 recap -yep, our third cruise in a row (sluttons!) - we’re spilling the sexy tea on what changed, what stayed the same, and what had us screaming “Fine Bliss, just take our credit card and our clothes."
We’re talking rave nights, missed connections, and the app that finally let us stalk by cabin number. Should’ve shot our shot - next time, no regrets.
Grab a drink, clutch your lanyard, and relive the foreplay. Part 2 goes deeper with even more tips to make your Bliss experience blissful..
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STAY TUNED FOR PART 2 OF OUR BLISS CRUISE RECAP NEXT WEEK!!
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Bliss Cruise Review 2025: What Worked, What Flopped, What Got Us Naked - Part 1
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
🔥 Check Out Our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘
💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Friday May 02, 2025
Friday May 02, 2025
🛑 So you’re thinking about swinging… but what are the actual rules? Do you kiss? Do you cuddle? Can he finish on her chest, in her mouth or none of the above?
In this episode, Kat & Leo serve up the ultimate swinger starter pack - aka all the boundaries you need to talk about before anyone takes their clothes off. Think of it as your pre-game pep talk: condoms, safe words, “don’t choke me,” and how not to end up in a group chat scandal.
Whether you’re a “no kissing, no oral” newbie or eyeing that full swap fantasy, this episode will help you get aligned, set limits, and keep things hot without the heartbreak. Because nothing kills the vibe faster than, “Wait… you did what?!”
Press play, grab your partner, and let’s talk boundaries, baby 💋
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STAY TUNED FOR OUR BLISS CRUISE RECAP - OUT IN THE NEXT WEEK. WHAT A WILD RIDE!!
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Swinger Boundaries: Where to Bust a Nut, Who Can Kiss, and WTF Is a Veto?
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
🔥 Check Out Our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘
💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Wednesday Apr 16, 2025
Wednesday Apr 16, 2025
🍆 Is there a limp d!ck epidemic sweeping the lifestyle? This week, Kat & Leo are talking about the one thing no swinger wants to admit happens… but absolutely does! And guess what? It’s not just older guys. From baby-faced 22-year-old studs to rugged 33-year-old firemen who literally wrestle flames - no one’s immune. From the pressure of group play to the mental gymnastics of threesomes, psychological ED is real - and it doesn’t discriminate.
We’re breaking down:
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🍌 What causes it (spoiler: it’s usually in your head)
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🍌 Why it’s more common than you think
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🍌 What to do when it strikes mid-thrust
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🍌 And how to bounce back with confidence (and maybe a little Viagra)
Let’s normalize the struggle. No shame, just solutions.
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Limp D!cks in the Lifestyle: It's About to GO DOWN!!
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
🔥 Check Out Our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘
💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
🦄 Ah, the unicorn - magical, mythical, and the star of every red-blooded man’s fantasy since time before time - the elusive, electric MFF threesome. Especially when both women are also into each other. 🔥 It also happens to be Leo’s personal favorite fantasy. If he had it his way, we’d record this episode live from a pile of tangled limbs, giggles, and glitter.... an MFFFF if he could have his way.
We’ll spill the tea on unicorn etiquette, how to break the ice (without being awkward), aftercare essentials, and the hottest positions to keep everyone grinning. Whether it’s your first time or your favorite fantasy, this guide will help you turn that dreamy MFF night into a reality no one forgets.
Because when the chemistry’s right and the vibes are high, this fantasy becomes a very real (and very unforgettable) night.
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! MFF Threesomes: How to Capture Real Unicorn Magic
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
🔥 Check Out Our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘
💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Wednesday Apr 02, 2025
Wednesday Apr 02, 2025
⭐What’s hotter than one man’s attention? Try two - with all eyes, hands, mouths (and more) on you. You're not alone. In this sultry episode, we’re diving deep into the world of MFM threesomes and showing you how to make the magic happen, even if you're soft swap only. Let’s just say if Kat had to pick one way to play forever… this would be it. 🔥
We’ll break down why single guys in the lifestyle are way more respectful than you'd expect (yes, really), how to explore this threesome without crossing your boundaries, and why it’s the perfect way to dip your toes in - no swapping, no separating, just all focus on the wife. 😈
We’ll break down hot positions, give you our best tips for managing the MFM dynamic, and reveal why this setup leaves Kat breathless, glowing, and grinning for days.
If you’ve been curious about threesomes, this one’s for you. And spoiler alert: one taste might not be enough.
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! MFM Threesomes: How to Make Her the Star
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
🔥 Check Out Our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘
💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us