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Join Kat & Leo for a Swinger podcast by Newbies, for Newbies. Kat’s the brains of the podcast and the star of Leo’s naughty fantasies. Funny, yet wildly unpredictable, Leo is the yuck to Kat’s yum. With a rakish mind and naughty wit, you never know what to expect with an R-rated mind made for mature audiences. We’re just getting started, so stay tuned to find out what crazy swinger adventure we’ll get up to next.
Episodes
Wednesday Apr 16, 2025
Wednesday Apr 16, 2025
🍆 Is there a limp d!ck epidemic sweeping the lifestyle? This week, Kat & Leo are talking about the one thing no swinger wants to admit happens… but absolutely does! And guess what? It’s not just older guys. From baby-faced 22-year-old studs to rugged 33-year-old firemen who literally wrestle flames - no one’s immune. From the pressure of group play to the mental gymnastics of threesomes, psychological ED is real - and it doesn’t discriminate.
We’re breaking down:
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🍌 What causes it (spoiler: it’s usually in your head)
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🍌 Why it’s more common than you think
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🍌 What to do when it strikes mid-thrust
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🍌 And how to bounce back with confidence (and maybe a little Viagra)
Let’s normalize the struggle. No shame, just solutions.
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
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Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Limp D!cks in the Lifestyle: It's About to GO DOWN!!
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
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Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)
🔥 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
🔥 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
🔥 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
🔥 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
🦄 Ah, the unicorn - magical, mythical, and the star of every red-blooded man’s fantasy since time before time - the elusive, electric MFF threesome. Especially when both women are also into each other. 🔥 It also happens to be Leo’s personal favorite fantasy. If he had it his way, we’d record this episode live from a pile of tangled limbs, giggles, and glitter.... an MFFFF if he could have his way.
We’ll spill the tea on unicorn etiquette, how to break the ice (without being awkward), aftercare essentials, and the hottest positions to keep everyone grinning. Whether it’s your first time or your favorite fantasy, this guide will help you turn that dreamy MFF night into a reality no one forgets.
Because when the chemistry’s right and the vibes are high, this fantasy becomes a very real (and very unforgettable) night.
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! MFF Threesomes: How to Capture Real Unicorn Magic
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)
🔥 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
🔥 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
🔥 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
🔥 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Wednesday Apr 02, 2025
Wednesday Apr 02, 2025
⭐What’s hotter than one man’s attention? Try two - with all eyes, hands, mouths (and more) on you. You're not alone. In this sultry episode, we’re diving deep into the world of MFM threesomes and showing you how to make the magic happen, even if you're soft swap only. Let’s just say if Kat had to pick one way to play forever… this would be it. 🔥
We’ll break down why single guys in the lifestyle are way more respectful than you'd expect (yes, really), how to explore this threesome without crossing your boundaries, and why it’s the perfect way to dip your toes in - no swapping, no separating, just all focus on the wife. 😈
We’ll break down hot positions, give you our best tips for managing the MFM dynamic, and reveal why this setup leaves Kat breathless, glowing, and grinning for days.
If you’ve been curious about threesomes, this one’s for you. And spoiler alert: one taste might not be enough.
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! MFM Threesomes: How to Make Her the Star
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)
🔥 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
🔥 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
🔥 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
🔥 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Wednesday Mar 26, 2025
Wednesday Mar 26, 2025
🐈 Ever rolled your eyes at yet another Glow party? Or wondered why lifestyle events seem to start at vampire hours? (we love 'em!) From overpriced club nights to the dreaded "bi-for-my-guy" dilemma, we’re diving deep into the biggest swinger complaints - and trust us, there are dozens.
In this episode, we spill the tea on the pet peeves that make seasoned swingers sigh, laugh, or straight-up ghost. We’re talking about theme-night fatigue, awkward price gaps, pushy party-goers, and the unwritten rules that some people just don’t get.
Plus, we’re not just ranting - we’re serving up solutions so you can sidestep these common mistakes and keep your lifestyle game strong. Whether you’re a newbie or a seasoned pro, this episode will have you nodding and taking notes.
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Swinger Pet Peeves (And How to Avoid Them)
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)
🔥 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
🔥 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
🔥 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
🔥 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Wednesday Mar 19, 2025
Wednesday Mar 19, 2025
❌❌❌ Grab your stilettos and step into Amsterdam’s Red Light District with us! This is our pre-pre-pre lifestyle ORIGIN story—before we even knew what “the lifestyle” meant, we were already amping up our sexy fun in the neon-lit streets of Amsterdam. We’re spilling all the scandalous details. Steamy live sex shows at Casa Rosso, how we played behind the red light windows (yes, really!), and the secrets to sealing the deal with an RLD lady—scam-free. Also where to find the most discreet FFM experience without the tourist traps.
Plus, we uncover the Erotic Museum’s wildest exhibits, the thrill of legal after-dark public play, and the city’s best naughty hotels. Whether you're a curious newbie or a seasoned sinner, this episode is your ultimate guide to Amsterdam’s hottest pleasures. 😈💋 Listen now—if you dare!
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW*blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Amsterdam After Dark: Red Light District Sexy Secrets Revealed
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)
🔥 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
🔥 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
🔥 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
🔥 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Wednesday Mar 12, 2025
Wednesday Mar 12, 2025
💋 While we never do a Kiss ‘n Tell… let’s be real, it’s high time to spill the tea on what Kat & Leo have been up to. From riding the double helix of alternating threesomes MFM-MFF-MFM-MFF (because balance is key, right?) to speedrunning the Swingermoon, that wild, intoxicating first 2 years of swinging where every encounter plays out like a passion-fueled dream you never want to wake up from.
Plus, Leo’s ultimate bucket list item he didn’t even know he had (MFFFF, anyone?), our Bucket F*ck-It List of must-do experiences before the glow fades, and why we’re grabbing every last adventure before the clock runs out. Buckle up, because it's a ride fueled by mind-numbingly powerful NRE coursing through our veins.
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Kiss 'n' Tell Our Swingermoon - The Honeymoon of Swinging
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)
🔥 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
🔥 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
🔥 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
🔥 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Wednesday Mar 05, 2025
Wednesday Mar 05, 2025
🏏 We’re diving into all the things we wish we knew before swinging - aka the mistakes, surprises, and total WTF moments that come with the lifestyle. From swinger FOMO to NRE hitting at different times, we break down how to keep your head on straight when emotions run wild. Plus, Kat has thoughts on why a threesome should never turn into a foursome… foreshadow much?
We’re also talking peer pressure, rejection, and why too much talking means no action (seriously, just go to an event!). Plus, the importance of aftercare - even for play partners (puppy pile, anyone?). Oh, and mistakes? They will happen - just don’t hold a grudge. It’s raw, real, and packed with the kind of swinging confessions we wish someone had told us before we dove in. Buckle up, because this one’s a ride!
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW*blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Swinging Rookie Mistakes: Wish I Knew Then What I Know Now
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)
🔥 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
🔥 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
🔥 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
🔥 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Tuesday Feb 25, 2025
Tuesday Feb 25, 2025
🚋 We’re diving deep into our local swinger scene with a full review of Twist SF, San Francisco's only swinger club. From newbie yoga to couples only nights, it's the spot for newbies! Plus we take a super quick sneak peek into Power Exchange, San Francisco’s sleaziest, anything-goes sex club (definitely not for the faint of heart!), where oddly enough, we had one of our best experiences—go figure! Why do we always find the hottest play partners at the sketchiest clubs?!
Plus, we’re serving up tons of newbie advice for your first time at a club, because Twist is one of the most beginner-friendly spots out there. Kat also spills the tea on the kind of guys she’s really looking for—cowboy? Farmer? Biker? And how to toe the fine line between being pushy vs. being a wussy... Plus, we unpack the shocking truth about her surprisingly low body count as a swinger (how is that even possible?!). Buckle up for all the juicy confessions—raw, unfiltered, and live on the road!
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Twist SF Review: San Francisco's Swinger Club
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.
*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)
🔥 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com
🔥 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers
🔥 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers
🔥 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us